Friday, January 28, 2011
Pictures January 23, 2011
January 23, 2011
Dear Family and Friends, January 23, 2011
This week Mark completed interviewing the rest of the missionaries except for two who were sick and a couple of the office missionaries. He completed 185 interviews in 10 days along with driving through the whole mission. The thing I love about interview time is that it is like taking the pulse or temperature of all the missionaries within a short period of time. It gives us a good sense of where the missionaries are with regards to the work and also personally. We began our interviews in San Ignacio a small town about 2 ½ hours from Asuncion. We started there at 8 am so we were up early that day. We met with eight missionaries there and then drove on to Encarnacion for interviews with a couple districts there. That night Mark had interviews with members for temple recommends. The next day he finished the interviews in Encarnacion and we headed for Santa Rita. There we met in the rented church building with the four elders who are serving there. I had a good conversation with the elders while we waited for their interviews. One Elder is fairly young in the mission but very mature and capable. I had read some of a blog his family puts his letters on and I was so impressed with the letters he writes home and the way he responds to the questions and comments his family makes. It is such a great combination for the kind of support missionaries need. His letters home are about the work here and he shares the experiences he is having and how he is learning and growing. The family asks questions about the work and shares their spiritual experiences with him. This elder is focused on the work and always seems happy! It is such a joy to see!! Another elder is almost to the end of his mission. He has been a happy hardworking elder also. He was telling me about his plans for after the mission and I was surprised to learn he had a girlfriend hopefully waiting for him. We have worked closely with this elder and he has never spoken of the friend. He told me he purposely didn’t speak of her much because he needed to focus on the work. It is no surprise that he has done so well during his mission. We spend a lot of time helping missionaries to know and understand their purpose as missionaries, which is to find and teach and baptized people. It is so wonderful when we see missionaries who are so devoted to the work and so happy all of the time. This elder has spread his sunshine to every elder he works with.
After the interviews in Santa Rita we drove on to Ciudad del Este. The next day Mark interviewed all the elders there and then had a meeting with the high councilor whose responsibilities include missionary work. As we drove between Encarnacion and Ciudad del Este we again enjoyed the country side which always reminds us of the midwest. Lots of land planted in soybeans, wheat, corn and sunflowers. The mixture of evergreens and palm trees is always interesting as we drive through the mission. The weather is hot but everything is very green and beautiful! At each stop it has been good to see missionaries being taught by district leaders and doing practices as they wait their turn for interviews. I gave my water encouragement and easy food idea printout and Mark encouraged everyone to work harder and more efficiently. We know as a mission we can improve and we need to! I didn’t have many health complaints from missionaries which is good. There are always a few things going on with some but as a mission we feel that most of the missionaries are doing well and are up to the work they need to do here.
The last day we were up early and stopped first in Ca’auazu where Mark interviewed 8 elders. Across the street from the church was a little market. I watched as a cart pulled by a horse pulled up and a woman hoped out of the cart and spoke to the woman at the shop. The woman with the cart grabbed a bunch of mandioca, which is a potato like root and a staple here in the diet, along with a hand scale, weighed the mandioca and sold it to the woman. A bit later a little van drove up to deliver some other items. The mix of old and new here is interesting to me, but somehow it works. Elder Richards from Washington is serving in Ca’auazu and I told him that his parents told me in their Christmas card that they had spoken to my brother who attends church in their same building in Everett. Small world!! We left Ca’auazu and drove to Coronel Oviedo for our last stop. There Mark had 12 more interviews. Our only sisters outside of Asuncion area are in Coronel Oviedo. Sister Lozano and Plummer were the first interviews and then we had a good visit. Sister Plummer who is new was thrilled to be able to speak English with me. She is doing well and learning a lot from her Spanish speaking companion.
While the interviews continued I joined with some women and children who were having a relief society meeting. They had a small group of women attend so they saved some leftover food for Mark after his interviews. We spent a couple hours just visiting and talking about families and other things .We were talking about names of children and one of them told me she got her daughter’s name from the TV show called Animal Kingdom . They had fun teaching me how to say I love you in guarani. The children were waiting for Mark to come out of his interview so I could say I love you to him. When I did they all giggled. Ro hai hu means I love you. It was such a fun day for me to spend time with a group of women instead of the usual me and a bunch of elders. (Not that spending most of my time with mainly elders is bad!) There is a real truth to the need we all have to feel connected to each other in the church, especially as women. I could have been sitting with my friends from home and had the same good feelings, but I’m in Paraguay speaking Spanish with my sisters in the gospel here. Life is good! One thing that would really help hold people in the church here just like everywhere is improved home and visiting teaching! I’m grateful my sweet visiting teachers Linda and Joan Stewart email me every month from Farmington!
Another week has flown by. Mark is in Coronel Oviedo with priesthood training this week. I meet a really nice couple the missionaries in our ward found this week. The man lived in Chicago for a while and was using his English with all of the missionaries. We hope things will go well for them as they continue to study with the missionaries. Elder Rockwood taught the Gospel Principles class today and did such a beautiful job. I am so impressed with the depth of many of our missionaries. They are truly a force for good in this world!! Have a wonderful week! Love, Mark and Sandy
Saturday, January 22, 2011
January 16, 2011
Dear Family and Friends, January 16,2011
As I write this Mark is on his third week of priesthood training meetings out in one of the districts in Coronel Oviedo, about 3 hours away. By the time he drives out holds the meetings and interviews and drives home it makes for a very long day. He has been happy each week though as he knows he is working hard to help the local leaders understand their callings and responsibilities better. I’ve been to our home ward three weeks in a row now and that is the first time that has happened since we have been here. Usually we try to visit as many wards and branches as we can but when Mark is gone I have to rely on the missionaries in the office to give me a ride to church so I attend church here where they also attend.
This week was spent in interviews for all the missionaries in zones one through five. They are all close enough to Asuncion that they all come into the office for their interviews. There were 106 interviews this week and the rest will be done next week as we drive out to them, interviewing in five different towns. The interviews take place every three months so it is really good to see everyone when we come together. Mark was focusing on encouraging everyone to push themselves a bit harder to accomplish what the Lord needs them to here in the mission. We had a poster made for all of their apartments of the inside back cover of Preach My Gospel to go along with the one we gave them at Christmas of the front cover. It is entitled “Remember This”. It has a list of 22 points to remember as missionaries, basically a quick list of everything missionaries should always be doing. We spend time teaching constantly about everything but there is so much and everyone comes with different preparation levels that it is never ending. And then just when we feel like they are getting their missionary skills up to their very best levels…it’s time for them to go home!! Every six weeks we get a new group to begin teaching and helping. We have many wonderful missionaries who are working very hard and seeing great successes. We also have a few who are working very hard at not working very hard!! I never will understand why some people fight the very things that will bring peace and joy into their lives. I read the other day that if you want the time to go quickly then just work real hard and it will fly by. I don’t want our time here to go quickly but I know as we work hard it is flying by!
I usually chat with the missionaries as they are waiting for their interviews and this time I had prepared some copies of some easy cooking ideas and also a recipe for a Gatorade type drink to help with hydration now that it is so hot. I also heard a few nice experiences that some missionaries shared with me. We had a companionship of sisters that needed to find a new apartment to rent. They had been searching and couldn’t find one. They went about their work and went to visit one of their investigators. When they went to the investigator’s apartment the investigator had moved. They were sad they had moved but the happy ending to the story is that the apartment was available and it was exactly what the sisters needed. A lesson for missionaries…as you go about the work , the Lord will help you with everything related to the work. The key word is WORK! The Lord is always looking out for his missionaries! Hopefully the investigators will be found again wherever they moved!
An elder told me of a woman who came up to him in church and said she had a son who had not been baptized yet. His father would not give permission for the ordinance for a long time. The father had changed his mind and granted permission. They went to teach the young man a few days later and while they were there the phone rang and the sister began to cry. The father of the family had been killed in an accident. The missionaries excused themselves and left the family and said they would call them later. They fully expected the baptism would be put off for a while as the family dealt with this hard situation. The mother of the family said, ”We want the baptism to go forward as planned. That is what my husband wanted.” The baptism was held after church the very next Sunday and 70 of the ward members stayed to support this young man and his family by attending the baptism. The gospel and its ordinances are real and they bring peace and comfort to us in our times of need. How grateful we are to be here watching people learn about these wonderful truths!
We are so grateful for the wonderful missionaries that have been called to serve in this mission. We learn much from each one of them. We are happy with them when they are happy and we are sad with them when they are sad. We want each of them to learn the lessons they need to learn while they are serving the people here. We know that through this mission experience each one has the opportunity to be better prepared for their future role of spouse and parent. We are so grateful for our own children and their spouses and our grandchildren and also all of these missionaries who will be a part of our lives forever! Have a wonderful week! Love, Mark and Sandy
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
January 8, 2011
Dear Family and Friends, January 8,2011
We are in the midst of summer here in Paraguay. The weather is hot and humid and we have had afternoon thunderstorms almost all week. We also have seen a rise in the health related phone calls we are receiving. When missionaries are out working hard it is so vital that they drink lots of water. It also means if they are not careful of the water they drink we see the results of that in the way they feel. We try to teach and remind but sometimes missionaries just have to experience the ill effects of unfiltered water before they become more careful about what they drink. When they eat in members’ homes they always need to have their filter bottle with them so they can have good water to drink. Many times they drink the juice offered which is made with unfiltered water and there is the problem. Keeping the missionaries healthy is so important so they can enjoy the work more and accomplish what the Lord needs them to here while they are on their missions. Anyway most missionaries figure out how to do the things that will keep them healthy and full of the energy they need to do the work here.
This week we had a Zone leaders council held here at the mission home quincho. We enjoy seeing the zone leaders each month and helping them learn how to better lead their zones. We have some good leaders who are trying hard to help the other missionaries in their zones. Each month there is an accounting made for how their zones are doing and then a sharing of ideas of how to improve. We are still working on implementing the fundamental principles from Preach My Gospel. There really is so much to always be teaching and practicing that we feel like there is never enough time to do all we want to. One of our the new assistants ,Elder J. Roberts from Weston , Idaho was especially impressive. It was his first time to teach during the council as an assistant and he showed a knowledge of the gospel and teaching abilities that were very wonderful! There is great power and strength in the missionary force around the world. The Lord has prepared great young men and women to do his work!
Lidu and I prepared a lunch of barbeque chicken and baked beans and scalloped potatoes. We tried a new recipe I found for sugar cookie bars that everyone loved. There is never one crumb left of anything we serve. Missionaries love to eat!
We also had a few missionaries in the office to take the English test. The latins have some English books given then in the MTC in Argentina and if they complete them they can take an English test that will show their competency and they can receive a certificate from BYU that can help in job placement after the mission. It is a good program if the missionaries take advantage of it!
This month Mark has priesthood leadership meetings every Sunday in all the districts. He goes out with his councilors and they hold the meetings and have interviews while they are out in the areas. Tomorrow he will leave at 4 am and return around 10 or 11pm because the meeting is in Encarnacion which is 5 hours away. It makes for long weeks when he does this every weekend all month. His responsibilities overwhelm me often when I think of the 188 missionaries and all of the district responsibilities that he has. He is really trying to help teach and train the leaders in the district . There is such a need for that here. Oh what he would give to have his Farmington high council and presidency here to help him! I think he is doing a great job but he never feels like he is doing all he wants to be able to do.
Well , it is a new year and the second full year we will spend in Paraguay. We know this missionary work is important here and all over the world. We are happy to be involved in the work of sharing the gospel with the people of the world! We love and miss you all! Mark and Sandy
Thursday, January 6, 2011
Pictures January 1, 2011
Wednesday, January 5, 2011
January 1, 2011
Dear Friends and Family, January 1, 2011
Wow the last two weeks flew by! We are so grateful for the Christmas season in the mission. It really allows us to focus on the Savior’s birth and not be too caught up in the busy –ness that sometimes it is so easy for us to do at home. We enjoyed a nice Christmas eve by attending the baptism for Ryan Pierce . The Pierce family lives here in Asuncion while working at the US embassy. Ryan’s grandparents are Bert and Linda Margetts ,our friends from Farmington. It was so fun to see the family and be there as Ryan was baptized. An added treat was the musical number where Ryan and his two brothers along with Sarah their Mom played a Christmas hymn on their violins. They did a beautiful job and we felt blessed to spend a little time with them that day.
We enjoyed speaking with all of our children on Christmas day. It was good to hear their voices and see them on skype. It is always fun to see the grandchildren and see that they still recognize us! We also learned that day that we will be receiving our fourteenth grandbaby in July. That will be Brian and Jenny , our oldest daughter’s, sixth child. We are happy for the good things that are happening in the lives of our children.
The missionaries were all happy that they were given permission this year to use skype for their phone calls to their families. We received word from Salt Lake only a few days before Christmas that they could use skype, so some had to scramble to get set up for the calls. There were a few problems connecting but I think everyone eventually made contact with their families, if not by skype at least by phone. The phone calls are always a mixed blessing. It is so nice for everyone to be able to speak with their families but sometimes it increases the homesickness for some for a bit.
We attended church in our home ward on Sunday and the Young Women sang a Christmas hymn in Sacrament meeting. They also brought gifts into Relief Society for all of the women.
Monday we jumped right into preparations for change week , getting ready to receive 9 new missionaries. Elders Hatch, Henriquez , Holmgren, Ponce and Shaw and Hermanas Gonzales ,Lavaka , Paipa and Plummer arrived on Tuesday . They are a good group who are ready to work! We oriented them and then Wednesday they had some training and then they met their trainers and were off! We were excited to receive 4 hermanas and will receive 4 more next change. We only have 13 sisters so whenever we receive new ones the sisters are excited! It also means our percentage of new sisters is high right now so there is a lot of teaching and training to be done.The Sisters’ missions go by so quickly that they really need to go to work fast to get their language quickly so they can communicate. Once the new missionaries were off we went to lunch and the temple with the 9 missionaries who had completed their missions. Every change I love to see the growth that happens to the missionaries during their time in the mission. We had sweet testimony meetings with new missionaries on Tuesday and Wednesday with the returning missionaries. It is probably my favorite part of change week! I love to see the new missionaries speaking their new language as they bear their testimonies. For those finishing their missions, I love to think of each of them taking their strengths with them back home and continuing to grow and also helping build the kingdom in their home wards and branches.
We are grateful for our experiences here in the mission. There are many wonderful things that we enjoy and there are also hard, sad things we experience as we work with our missionaries. We really feel the love of the Lord for all of his children as we try to help these young missionaries reach their potential as missionaries and as children of God and future husbands, wives, and fathers and mothers. We truly do love our missionaries and want the be instruments in helping each of them progress. The Plan of Happiness is wonderful in the way we are given opportunities to learn and grow and progress as we work hard to do what the Lord asks of us. We hope you all enjoy a wonderful New Year of Hope, Peace and Joy! We love and miss you all!! Mark and Sandy
